A legend in my own mind

I once jokingly said to George, “I want to be a  legend  after I die”…to which he said “in your own mind, or in others?”. I just looked at him and suddenly giggled.  “I guess in someone else’s mind, actually. I already am in my own”.  He (of course) rolled his eyes at me and changed the subject.

When I saw the prompt today I thought about that mini-conversation again.  I want to be remembered when I am gone from this world.  Not for the various things I accomplished, but with fondness and love.

I don’t care if people remember I won an award, or gave testimony at a state congress, or changed the way people in my community think about addictions or domestic violence.  I don’t care if they remember how many times I protested against racial inequalities or sexual assault or child abuse.

I want to be remembered as the person who loved.  Without conditions.

I want my children to feel good when they think of me. I want them to know unequivocally that they were loved for themselves and not whatever they did.

I want my friends to remember that I loved them and accepted them for who they are without judgment or wanting to change them.

If I can do that then I will be a legend.

8 thoughts on “A legend in my own mind

  1. You’re already a legend in my mind, Suze. I just want to be remembered as a man who did his best to grow up and be a part of the solution, not the problem. (Got a long way to go)


    1. don’t we all? I figure by the time I am 127 I shall have accomplished whatever it is I am supposed to do on this Earth! LOL


  2. I agree, you already are a legend, Suze 🙂 No need to worry about that, just keep doing what you do, and being who you are 🙂 You will be remembered!

    Ok, not funny, but it is true! xx


  3. Your a legend to me Susan


  4. I like your idea about how you want to be remembered as a person who loved because as simple as that may sound, it can be the most difficult thing to do. Still, it’s an important thing.


  5. Nice point of view. Super LIKE for you 🙂


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