just thinking…………

I woke up this morning thinking it was Monday.  It isn’t..it is still Sunday morning here in glorious Enid, but my brain just couldn’t accept it. For just a moment, I time traveled…..at least in my brain.

I also thought today was my wedding anniversary…it isn’t. That was yesterday. And to my utter relief, George didn’t remember it either.

I suppose after 33 years, it really isn’t that big a deal anymore.

My second thought after realizing I missed my anniversary was “I have been married longer than I was alive when I got married”…hoo boy. That was a real brain twister.

I’ve been thinking about our wedding…how very young we both were…the people who attended and the things those people said. My brother played his guitar at our reception. My sister was maid of honor..George’s sister was a bridesmaid..and two lovely gentlemen attended George. Both are gone now..one to wounds incurred in battle during Desert Storm and one to cancer.

So many who were guests are gone now. Both of our parents……a brother, a cousin, numerous friends. And here we still are.

One of the most difficult lessons George and I have had to learn in this marriage is how to let go.

Let go of family..let go of things, places, pets, children, friends. And as we age, we have to let go more and more frequently.

People of faith, I think, may have an easier time of letting go than I.  Oh, I have faith in God as I know her…but not in any organized fashion. I tend to rant and rail when letting go.  It may not be external but the outrage and ranting are all there.

Today, I think I should let go of the image of us as “young”…it occurred to me that I still think of myself as being a young person, and that is far from reality. I am only “young” if people naturally live to be 200! I am so much closer to the end of my time here than the beginning, and possibly it is time for me to internalize that fact.

Yea….that isn’t going to happen. At least not today.

Today, the rock and roll will be played at max volume while I sweep and scrub the floors and the bathroom.  Today I will again dance with my broom or my mop..every now and then stopping to use it as a microphone when a particular song plays. Today I will eat my dessert before my dinner…and I will play a fantasy computer game instead of paying bills.

Today is a day to celebrate the fact that I have life.

13 thoughts on “just thinking…………

  1. now why in the heck do you have to start the day making me think like this….:)

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  2. The body may be aging but the heart is still young and the heart has suddenly decided to live life for a time instead of mundane routines, changing water heaters and trying to change the world…. listen to the rock and roll but don’t scrub the floors… 🙂

    “Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly proclaiming; “Wow! What a ride!” Hunter S. Thompson

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    1. Hunter and I are friends of long standing……….lol

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  3. Rock on, Suze. It’s your life. Enjoy Sunday.

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  4. Happy Anniversary and stay forever young…at heart and in mind, anyway.

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  5. I agree! I’m 57 and have also been married 33 years!

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  6. You will never age, you will be a child forever 🙄

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    1. oh, I certainly hope so!

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  7. happy anniversary a day late! Its fun staying young, i’m heading towards 40 now, 38 so 2 years to go. I’m a child at heart though, not to mention all the internal kids inside well because I have did. xo


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